Let's talk about something else...

Posted by One Man On 17:14
We've all been there on a date with the best intentions. We actually finally found someone we like and want the date to turn out really well. Unfortunately, without realising it, we could be commit the ultimate crimes of bad date conversations. Read below for some things NOT to talk about.

Agreeing with everything he/she says on a first date.
Being a 'Yes' person is not good. People like people with opinions, and there's nothing worse than someone who hasn't got one. It's good to have passion and it creates a strong attraction for someone to see that. It means you actually care about something, and hopefully that means you would have the similar strength of desire for them, if anything develops.

Discussing yours and her dating life on a first date.
It's good to open up but not about your love life on your first date. If it comes up, keep it to a minimum. It can add indirect added pressure to the situation and make the other person have pre-judgements about what kind of person you are. Too many lovers may seem you only care about sex, a couple of really long relationships may seem that you want to commit quickly. Either way, change subject.

Talking about how much you earn.
Sometimes this works, especially if you want to get together with a gold-digger. For the average person though this is probably a topic that should always be avoided. Again, judgements can easily be made, too much, too little, security... everyone has their reasons but most of all, it shouldn't matter.

Making a conversation last longer than it should
You get nervous, you talk more, you're running out of conversations so you end up repeating yourself over and over again trying to make it last longer. Learn to stop and admit to yourself that this conversation is on its last legs. Either look for a new conversation starter but if all fails make your excuses, say you're going to the toilet, quick phone call, regain your thoughts and start again with some new ammunition. If all fails, cut the evening short and say you had a great time.



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