Being resourceful

Posted by One Man On 22:22 0 comments
One thing that can make a difference in making a girl like you or not is perception. Dating girls is not just about getting their number and going out it is also about keeping them interested and want to discover more about you.

A way to do that is to make them perceive that you a knowledgable and resourceful. When I talk about resourcefulness it doesn't mean being able to get on a guestlist at a club or being able to make a dinner reservation at the last minute.

Start small, find out what she wants to do/likes. It could be as simple as a conversation about desserts. Find out what her favourite dessert is, e.g. cheesecake and tell her you know this great place that does cheesecake. She'll love to find out and see whether it's true.

Just be sure though that you do have a place, and make sure it is good!

Good luck and she might even let you have a bite.

Acting Confident brings hope

Posted by One Man On 19:29 0 comments
The one thing I have learnt over the years is there is nothing worse than walking up to a girl and looking nervous. The nervous energy just makes them feels nervous and in turn makes the whole atmosphere awkward.

Tip: Even if you are nervous, put on a persona, imagine you are a super confident guy, or if that's difficult, vision someone who you admire that is confident and pretend to be him.

Stick your chest out, keep your head held high and when you approach, smile and say hi.

Takes some practice for soon you'll see even the smallest change can make the girl's reaction much more positive. Don't be suprised if she smiles back. (it means it's working!)

Good luck guys.

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